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Master the fine art of flirting
The Reader’s Digest Universal Dictionary defines flirting as ”amusing oneself in playful amorousness; play lightly or teasingly, at courtship“.
The keyword is playful. Think of flirting as harmless, joyful fun and an opportunity to turn on the charm. It is simply the first step to getting to know someone, nothing more.
So much has already been written about flirting that it is almost like a science. But flirting is best thought of as an art. It is your natural self, charm and sincerity combined.
The fine art of flirting
Contrary to popular opinion, a woman does not have to be devastatingly attractive, sexy, rich, smooth to be successful at flirting. Flirting has less to do with how you look…and a lot more to do with how you make the men around you feel, without trying too hard. The first requirement to being a flirt is to decide you want to be a flirt.
Although some women seem to be natural-born flirts, there is no reason for the non-congenital flirt to despair. Flirting is skill; therefore it can be learned!
Some women think that flirting is cheap and desperate. If you are one of these women, perish the thought.
You may have formed this opinion because of some outrageous flirting scenes that you have witnessed. True, some women who overdo flirting do look outrageous, phony, and desperate. As with anything, moderation is the key.
After you have decided to a want to be flirt, don’t take it too seriously. Approach it with a carefree attitude. Practice until it becomes second nature, Have reasonable expectations. Not everyone that you flirt with will respond favorably. Don’t be dissuaded if this happens. Think of it as just one of the lessons that you have to go through for your Master of Arts in Flirting.
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Recommended Reading:
Secrets of Flirting with Men
Finally! You Can Discover How To Flirt, and Have The Most ”Wicked“ (But Innocent) Fun With Any Man On The Planet, Even If You Have No Idea What To Say Or Do. How To Get Any Man's Attention - The Right Way
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Proceed with Caution
A word of caution, though. Although we have stressed that flirting is harmless fun, good judgment is crucial. In certain situations, it may be best not to even think about it. Examples of these situations are:
- when you are in a fully committed relationship and has no intention of getting out of it
- when your flirting target is in a fully committed relationship and has no intention of getting out of it
- when the situation is not safe, as in meeting a stranger in a dark place (other than bars and pubs, where lighting is really subdued) at night
- when your instincts tell you it is best to lay off this man; you are most probably right
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