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He criticizes you
He suddenly becomes over critical of you. Whereas he used to praise your sense of style, now he thinks you are overdressed. He now focuses on your flaws and becomes vocal about them.
He doesn’t discuss the future
He doesn’t seem to be interested in discussing anything long-term. He avoids discussions of anything beyond one month.
He spends more time with his friends
You find him spending more time with his work or with his friends. He always has something to do on weekends and avoids occasions where you can be intimate.
He quarrels more often
Both of you used to be agreeable but now find yourselves quarrelling over simple matters. In worse situations, you quarrel every time you see or speak to each other.
He threatens you he’s leaving
He has the cheek to threaten you that he will leave, or worse, find someone else.
He tells other people
Before he used to sing praises for you, now he starts telling his family and friends why he is unhappy with you. This is to prepare them for his impending departure from your life. Of course, you probably won't know what he is saying behind your back but if you are sensitive, you can sense a change in how his family and friends relate to you.
He becomes silent
You find that you are doing all the work now. You are initiating all the dates, even your conversations. You feel that if you don’t call, he will just quietly slip away.
You feel insecure
You aren’t normally insecure and suddenly you find yourself feeling unloved, neglected, unattractive, incompetent, defensive and easily replaceable.
You feel it
Your intuition tells you. This is one of the most powerful signs that your relationship is heading for a crash. You have that unexplainable feeling that something is wrong somewhere. You have this nagging feeling that things aren’t the same even if your man tries to deny or cover it up.
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