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Bad love makes you feel bad most of the time.
Good love makes you feel good most of the time
Bad love makes you feel bad about yourself,
Good love makes you love yourself.
Bad love leaves you wanting for more because it is not freely given
Good love leaves you fulfilled because it is given freely without your asking
Bad love inhibits you from being the best you can be
Good love encourages, nourishes you to be the best
Bad love makes you lose focus
Good love centers and inspires you
Bad love leaves you feeling listless, jealous, insecure
Good love makes you feel calm, secure, confident
Bad love makes you feel abandoned, cheated, ugly
Good love makes you feel supported, cherished, beautiful
Bad love leaves you feeling drained, tired, exhausted
Good love makes you feel energetic, alive, refreshed
Bad love dies as time passes
Good love grows as time goes
Bad love is in a hurry
Good love moves slowly
Bad love tries to change you
Good love accepts you for who you are
Bad love thrives only in good times
Good love survives all kinds
Bad love can kill you
Good love gives you a new life
Bad love makes you think that men are created to make a woman’s life miserable.
Good love makes you think men are God’s gift to women
Bad love makes you feel the world is a sorry place to live in
Good love makes you feel the world is wonderful and that
Life and Love is the greatest gift of all.
If bad love is so bad, why does it happen?
Because we allow it to happen. Love is like tango; it takes two to make it happen. When your man constantly criticizes you and abuses you, you don’t have to stay. If he has a habit of dating more than one woman at a time, you don’t have to put up with it. If your man won’t commit and just wants to keep you waiting in the wings, nothing can stop you from leaving. You always have a choice. If you know what you deserve and you don’t get it, you can always choose to walk away.
Let me point out, though, that bad love does not necessarily have a bad man in the equation. Sometimes, it is just the woman who is solely responsible for the bad loving that she is in. It can happen that she is the cause of it and what the man does can be totally reactionary. Crazy jealousy, obsessive attraction and unfounded insecurity are examples of self-inflicted bad love.
Good love is not a dream. It is real. Just as bad love happens to a lot of women, good love is enjoyed by just as many. It can happen to you too. The key is to think and believe that good love is what you want and what you deserve, nothing less.
Having good love is not magic. It is something that you can attract into your life, something that happens because you want it to happen.
Because you can make it happen.
You deserve nothing less.
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