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Let’s Meet!
One of the greatest joys of online romance is meeting in the flesh the man you have grown to like online. Remember that this person is still a stranger, no matter how close you may feel towards him.
The key is to be smart, safe and savvy when meeting someone in person.
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Meet in a neutral zone
Resist invitations to go to his place and never invite him to go to your place. Meet in a café or a pub where there are many people. As the lady, exercise the option to choose the meeting place. Choose a place that is familiar to you.
Provide for your own transportation/accommodations
Take your car, take a cab, a bus, a train, whichever way you take – as long as it is your own. Riding in someone else’s vehicle makes you feel very vulnerable.
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If you traveled to see him, make sure that you have separate accommodations. Staying in a hotel is much safer than staying in his place.
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Make sure someone knows where you will be and with whom
Tell a trusted friend that you are meeting someone. Give her the meeting details and call her as soon as you get to the meeting place and have seen your online man.
Keep the first meeting short
No matter how great you hit it off, keep the first meeting to two hours max. If he is interested, he will initiate another meeting.
Have a ready exit plan
Before you even meet him, tell him you will be meeting some friends after your meeting. This way, you can gracefully end the meeting whether you hit it off or not.
Trust your intuition
If your instincts tell you that something is wrong, be cautious. If you feel that your online man cannot be trusted, acknowledge your instincts and make a decision from there.
Go easy on the sex
It isn’t uncommon that online couples have discussed sex even before they have met. If such is your case, be careful not to get too intimate with the person so soon. Treat this guy as if you have just met him and starting to get to know him. If either one of you have traveled to see each other, there might be a temptation to be intimate sooner. Should you decide to do so, make sure you are properly protected.
Evaluate your feelings
If your online man lives thousands of miles away from you, realize that sooner or later, he will have to depart and return home. Your initial excitement may then turn into uncertainty and loneliness. This is a good time to reevaluate your feelings. After you have met him, do you still want to continue your online relationship? Are there plans for a next visit? How would you feel about not seeing him for the next six months? Your responses will determine whether it was just excitement or ”true online love“.
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