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The joys of being single
One of the blessing of being single again is the opportunity to discover the joys of being alone. Sure, life is more fun when you are with someone but being single can also be fun in itself. Lest you have forgotten, being single means more freedom. You can do whatever you want without consulting your other half. You can change your hairstyle, go out every night, take overseas trips, move to another job or even move to another place.
Being single again also offers you unlimited dating possibilities. Now you can date everyone who fancies you and you fancy without feeling guilty.
Most of all, being single again allows you to keep in touch with your true self, your own tastes and desires without compromise. When you are in a relationship, you are most often forced to mold yourself to suit the taste of your man, to keep the relationship more harmonious. Now you are free to explore those parts of yourself that you have compromised. You can now dress as you wish, style your hair as you like, eat what you want, watch movies that you really enjoy, hang out with people you like. All these without worrying about anyone’s approval.
Being single again gives you the freedom to be you.
That alone is worth the temporary solitude.
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